smartlist: contact list reordered when sending messages

Affects: Latest LRC + GNU/Linux GNOME client

How to reproduce:

Set up a Ring account with several contacts where the conversation is empty (completely empty, clear history was called)
Open the topmost conversation and send messages while looking at the conversations list: the order of empty conversations changes

This makes the smartlist blinky, we should really avoid that.

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